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It’s 1989, the Berlin Wall is coming down, and Kate has just graduated from Yale, eager to pursue her dreams as a fledgling painter. When she receives a job offer to work as the assistant to Lydia Schell, a famous American photographer in Paris, she immediately accepts. It’s a chance not only to be at the center of it all, but also to return to France for the first time since she was a lonely nine-year-old girl, sent to the outskirts of Paris to live with cousins while her father was dying.

Kate may speak fluent French, but she arrives at the Schell household in the fashionable Sixth Arrondissement both dazzled and wildly impressionable. She finds herself surrounded by a seductive cast of characters, including the bright, pretentious Schells, with whom she boards, and their assortment of famous friends; Kate’s own flamboyant cousin; a fellow Yalie who seems to have it all figured out; and a bande of independently wealthy young men with royal lineage. As Kate rediscovers Paris and her roots there, while trying to fit into Lydia’s glamorous and complicated family, she begins to question the kindness of the people to whom she is so drawn as well as her own motives for wanting them to love her.

In compelling and sympathetic prose, Hilary Reyl perfectly captures this portrait of a precocious, ambitious young woman struggling to define herself in a vibrant world that spirals out of her control. Lessons in French is at once a love letter to Paris and the story of a young woman finding herself, her moral compass, and, finally, her true family.

Reading Group Guide

Lessons in French Hilary Reyl Reading Group Guide This reading group guide for Lessons in French includes an introduction, discussion questions, ideas for enhancing your book club, and a Q&A with author Hilary Reyl. The suggested questions are intended to help your reading group find new and interesting angles and topics for your discussion. We hope that these ideas will enrich your conversation and increase your enjoyment of the book.


Set against the fall of the Berlin Wall in 1989, Lessons in French follows Kate, a recent Yale graduate who moves to Paris to work with renowned photographer Lydia Schell. Lydia proves an unstable tour de force who introduces Kate to the likes of Umberto Eco and Henri Cartier-Bresson while testing Kate’s patience with unpredictable work assignments. A talented artist in her own right, Kate struggles to establish her own style in both her artwork and personal life, both of which are challenged throughout the novel. As Kate’s relationships with Lydia and her family become more complicated than she ever could have anticipated, she is faced with a decision: sacrifice her burgeoning individuality for the sake of her job or sacrifice a budding career to maintain her integrity. With guidance from family and an eclectic group of confidantes, Kate rejects the Schell’s enticing but complicated bourgeoisie lifestyle in order truly to develop her art and stay true to herself.  

Topics & Questions for Discussion 

1) At the beginning of the novel, Kate explains her taste in art: “I was too literal. I loved the Monets, but I didn’t entirely trust them” (p. 15). How does Kate’s literal approach to her own art change throughout the novel? How does it stay the same?
2) Lessons in French features a variety of complicated characters. Who is your favorite character? Who is your least favorite? Explain your choices.
3) In the beginning days of Kate’s Paris experience, she reflects that she felt her “world gelling anew as if [she] had finally found the right prescription for a pair of glasses” (p. 36). Ironically this clarity is a product of her relationships with Clarence and Lydia. Do you think this quote still holds true despite the complications and deceptions that arise in these relationships?
4) The Berlin Wall is as much a character in Lessons in French as the people. What parallels can be drawn between the fall of the wall and Kate’s relationship with the Schell family?
5) When discussing Kate’s art work, Claudia tells her that she is “trying to avoid a style” (p. 122) with her drawings—a feat Claudia deems impossible. Why do you think Kate, who is otherwise a very talented artist, struggles to find her style?
6) Kate discusses her drawing techniques with Étienne, she says, “I don’t change things. I see them. I have a talent for seeing” (p. 163). Do you agree with her artistic observation? Do you think it’s true of her personal interactions? Explain.
7) Kate describes Rushdie as striving to “change his condition” while still inhabiting it (p.235). Do any other characters also “inhabit” their conditions even as they try to change? Which characters successfully change their situations?
8) After Kate is fired by Lydia, Kate observes, “These people were crass. These people were tragic. These people were ultimately ordinary” (p. 222). Do you agree with her assessment of the Schell family? Explain your answer.
9) Many relationships in Lessons in French are filled with secrets and deception. What relationship is the most dysfunctional? What relationship is the healthiest? 10) The romance between Kate and Olivier is one of the most complicated relationships in the novel. Did you foresee its ending? If you were the author, what ending would you write for the couple?
11) From the politics of the Berlin Wall and Salman Rushdie to the AIDS crisis, Lessons in French touches on serious cultural issues that took place in the late 1980s. What is the most influential historical topic in the novel? Can you think of any other topics that would be interesting or relevant to the story?
12) Étienne’s AIDS diagnosis shocks Kate and Christie. Did you anticipate Étienne’s illness? What other plot twists surprised you?
13) Kate’s final observation of herself is that she is “no longer accent-free to the point of invisibility” (p.337). How does her “accent” develop throughout the story? How is her accent—or lack thereof—symbolic?
14) Discuss what you think is the book’s main takeaway message. If you could ask the author one question about the book, what would it be?

Enhance Your Book Club

1. Have a French style book club meeting. Play French music and enjoy traditional pastries—and don’t forget the croissants!
2. Read the history behind the fiction. Find out interesting an interesting fact about the fall of the Berlin Wall or one of the many famous authors in Lessons in French.
3. Have an art talk! Most of the characters in Lessons in French are either artists or art aficionados. Share your favorite artists and works with your book club.
4. Learn more about first-time novelist Hilary Reyl. Visit her website,, and follow her on Facebook and Twitter.   

A Conversation with Hilary Reyl 
Kate has had several different experiences with France and Paris in particular. You have also spent time in France and are familiar with French culture. How much did you draw on your own experiences for Kate’s story? Did you conduct additional research?  

I spent a year in Normandy with my family when I was eleven and twelve. My father was an academic, writing his dissertation, and could live anywhere for a short period, so my parents decided to take my sister and me to France. We started out in Paris, but it was too expensive and the school there put us in a class for foreigners. So we ended up in the servants' cottage of a small chateau outside a tiny village surrounded by cows and sheep. A lovely husband and wife teaching team took us under their wing and, in very little time, I was fluent and in love with France. Like my character, Kate, I was young enough to get the accent and old enough to intellectualize – and romanticize – the experience.  

I returned to France during summers to visit family friends in Paris and my teachers from Normandy, with whom I am still close. But I didn't live in France again until the fall of 1989, right after I graduated from college, when I spent a year in Paris working for a journalist. Then, in the academic year of 1993-94, I did coursework for my master's degree in French Literature at the Paris campus of NYU, taking classes at the Sorbonne. These were the years when I immersed myself in the city, and they remain incredibly vivid to me.  

Insofar as Paris is a character in my novel, I have drawn heavily on my own time there, on my memories of food and impressions of the streets and the sensation of living in two languages. I too happen to love Berthillon ice cream, chestnut croissants, and the Rodin sculpture garden. Mornings in the Luxembourg Gardens and late nights dancing at clubs like Les Bains Douches are etched in my mind so that I was able to transpose them fluently into my fiction. The Parisian setting was strong enough inside me that I needed very little research to recreate its scenes.

Like Kate, you have a personal history with France. Do you have a favorite French town or location? What is your favorite element of French culture?  

I have three favorite places in France.  

The Marais, which literally means the “swamp” because it is land reclaimed from the Seine in the early 1600s, is an old labyrinthian part of Paris on the right bank, with tiny streets, and a gorgeous Henri IV square called Place des Vosges where Victor Hugo lived. I spent a year in the Marais, studying French literature, living in a minute studio on a cobblestone passageway. Since it was so central, I would walk to all my classes on the various Paris campuses, and, coming home, feel like I was returning to the ancient beating heart of the city.  

My second favorite location could not be less famous or glamorous. It is the region of Normandy called l'Orne where I lived for a year as a girl with my family and first fell in love with the French language, culture and food. France for me will always be about rain-soaked green pastures, stone cider presses ringing apple trees, cows and more cows, the taste of raw-milk Camembert and the French I learned in my one-room village school.  

Finally, I love a small town on the Mediterranean coast, between Nice and Monaco, called Beaulieu sur Mer. It is relaxed, sun-drenched and draped in Bougainvillea. My husband Charles and I had our wedding reception there in a Greek villa on the sea. It was an idyllic place to mingle our French and American worlds. My crowning memory is of croissants on the beach at sunrise.

Lessons in French is filled with intriguing characters, including real-life artists and writers. How did you determine your cast of famous characters? Did you always plan on featuring Salman Rushdie as Lydia’s artistic inspiration?  

I wanted to populate the Schell world with impressive figures from art and literature in order to give it the jet-set intellectual atmosphere that Kate is so dazzled by. And I chose the particular artists for specifically thematic reasons.  

I have always been intrigued by Henri Cartier Bresson's take on photography, and, as I was writing, I recalled reading a wonderful New Yorker piece, back in 1989, about his late-in-life transition from photography to drawing, which struck me as a perfect inspiration for Kate's artistic development.  

I decided to feature Umberto Eco because he was very much a cultural arbiter at the time the novel is set. He was both fashionable AND an intellectual heavyweight, exactly the sort of person to set the Schell tone.  

Harry Matthews has a quality of mischief in his writing and in what I know of his life that makes him a perfect tragicomic figure for the book and a particularly sympathetic figure to Kate.  

Lydia's relationship with Salman Rushdie is complicated and I hope her attraction to him reflects her complexity as a character. She is drawn to his story out of a profound sense of justice, but she is also drawn to his fame as a moth to light. Through her photographs, she wants to participate in the history to which he is central, and also to associate her name with his. So he is both an important political figure and a source of glamour for her. And the two roles are impossible to separate out.

Which character do you identify with the most? Do you have a favorite character?  

The character I identify with most is Kate because I too spent formative years in Paris during which I grew up a considerably. Some of my most painful memories are there, as well as my happiest. But my favorite characters are Jacques and Solange. They are a collage of all the “parent” figures I have known, mixed in with some of my favorite literary characters from Balzac and Proust. When I picture them, I feel waves of gratitude and love.

Lessons in French takes place during the fall of the Berlin Wall in 1989. What made you decide to set the novel during this time? Did you consider other time periods?  

I briefly considered setting the novel in the mid-seventies, which is the first period during which I lived in France, but decided on 1989-90 because it was more vivid to me and also because it was a more crucial time politically. The Berlin Wall coming down, leaving two worlds that had been separated for years suddenly facing one another, provided a deep sense of possibility as well as anxiety and unrest. This tumult heightened Kate's own sense of being poised at the start of something “big” with no idea how she was going to pull it off.

Most romantic relationships in the novel are deeply flawed, particularly Clarence’s and Lydia’s dysfunctional marriage. What do you think readers will take away from these relationships? What made you decide to keep Lydia and Clarence together even after Clarence’s infidelity?  

First of all, a dysfunctional relationship makes for much better dialogue than a happy one! Secondly, I was interested in exploring the ways that abuse and competition can bind people like Lydia and Clarence, who are ultimately realistic and grittily ambitious, whereas often relationships based in romantic fantasy and obsession, like Kate and Olivier's or Claudia and Clarence's, can't endure. Lydia and Clarence are “two wings of a trapped moth.” They torture one another, but they are also part of the same animal. And when they are threatened, as when Joshua joins the army, or when they decide to turn on Kate or to banish Olivier or Claudia, they unite in a reflexive defensive posture. I wanted to show their cruelty not only as a kind of tragicomic affection but also as a form of destructive dependency that is stronger than they are as individuals. Nothing, not even infidelity, can break them apart.

Although initially mesmerized by the Schell family, Kate ultimately decides to leave Paris at the story’s end. Did you ever consider an alternative ending for Kate’s journey?  

I knew Kate's arc from the outset of my writing. While I wasn't always sure of the exact turns she would take, and I discovered many shades of her personality as I went, the fact that she would break free of her “mentors” and slowly come into her own, both as an artist and as a member of her true family, was never in doubt.

Lessons in French is your first published novel. What was your favorite part of novel writing? What was the most challenging?  

My favorite part of novel writing, because it was the most interesting, was also the most challenging. It was finding the balance between pain and pleasure. Although Kate and I have wildly different stories, the emotional truth of my early twenties was similar to hers. I tried to combat my formlessness with an eagerness to please that makes me cringe when I look back. But it also makes me nostalgic, tender and amused toward my old self. In the novel, I hoped to evoke Kate's insecurity along with her growing intelligence and sense of humor and joy. It took several drafts, pushing deeper each time, to get at my emotional truth. Yet even as parts of the book became painful, I tried to maintain its sense of play and give voice to my joy in immersing myself in the wonders of Paris. So it was a delicate balance between coming to terms with the awkwardness of youth and shaping it into a story, a story which, while “difficult” remains pleasurable to read.

In your opinion, what is the main message in Lessons in French? What do you hope your readers learn from the novel?  

I did not write Lessons in French with one specific lesson in mind, although Kate does learn throughout the story.  

In the broadest sense, Kate comes into a style of her own. Gradually, she takes responsibility for her actions just as she allows herself to own up to her artistic choices rather than desperately trying to reflect the world and the desires and opinions of everyone who impresses her. She also becomes a nuanced judge of character, finally able to see the Schells and Olivier in their true colors, because she is progressively more able to discern complexity in human nature. So, it is a book about forming personality, and I hope it will speak to anyone who has ever floundered in this pursuit.  

The book is also very much about family, about the way a young person in new surroundings will attempt to forge bonds that imitate those she has known or wished for. Katie tries to find the “father” she has lost and to seek the approval of a “mother” whom she perceives as more successful than her own. Ultimately, though, she comes to see that her own heritage is richer and truer for her than the one she aspires to. But it is not a direct path, and it is certainly not an uninteresting one for Kate. I suppose everyone has to find her own balance between true and adopted family. There is no specific right or wrong, but there is a moral compass in each of us, and so much of growing up is finding it for oneself.

Do you have any other creative projects in the works?  

I am currently working on a novel called “Borrasca,” which means the opposite of Bonanza. It is a father-daughter story set in the 1970's, mostly in California. It is a major reworking of the first novel I ever attempted, but have not been able to get right despite several versions. I feel that I have finally found a way to tell the story to its fullest effect and I am very excited about the writing as it goes forward.

About The Author

Hilary Reyl has a PhD in French literature from NYU with a focus on the nineteenth century and has spent several years working and studying in France. She lives in New York City with her husband and three children.

Product Details

  • Publisher: Simon & Schuster (March 5, 2013)
  • Length: 352 pages
  • ISBN13: 9781451655049

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Raves and Reviews

"An appealing debut."

– "Editor's Pick"

“French literature scholar Reyl’s first novel is rich and magnetic, a snapshot of one young woman’s life in a city at once ancient and bubbling over with life.”

– Booklist

"A bittersweet tale of personal growth and a paean (well deserved!) to Paris. Having lived there, Reyl should light up the City of Light."

– Library Journal

"Un bon livre."

– Kirkus Reviews

“Paris is an irresistible backdrop and a proving ground in Hilary Reyl’s emotionally wise first novel. As Kate struggles to find who she truly is amid the ever-brewing storms in Schell household, her lessons are hard-won and often risky—and yet we believe and fully root for her from page one. An affecting and intelligently drawn debut.”

– Paula McLain, author of The Paris Wife

“Hilary Reyl has crafted the ultimate sophisticated coming-of-age-story. Not since Diane Johnson’s Le Divorce have Americans in Paris seemed so compelling. Lessons in French is not only an impossibly romantic and sensual delight, but its characters—witty and surprisingly poignant—stayed with me long after I savored the final page.”

– Joanna Hershon, author of Swimming and The German Bride

“With its complicated love story, rich cast of accomplished and eccentric characters, and vivid evocation of late 1980’s Paris, Lessons in French is a delight from the first page. I got so caught up in the story, I almost believed I was young, living in a Parisian garret, and fluent in French.”

– Stephen McCauley, author of Insignificant Others

"Any ambitious young woman who has ever been out of her depth in a new job, new city or new romance will recognize a bit of herself in Ms. Reyl's heroine."

– Elizabeth Bard, author of Lunch in Paris: A Love Story, with Recipes

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