“This book is a must read for everybody working in residential care because It offers a unique perspective by somebody who lived in a care home to support his wife. The insights and experiences contained in this book are game-changing for the care sector” – Martin Green, CEO Care England

“This book is unique in that the author brought huge business experience to the job of supporting his wife and her carers cope with dementia. Because he was living in the care home with her, he was able to see daily how a misplaced attitude to risk can badly affect the dementia sufferer. It is a vital read for anyone involved in care or with a loved one facing dementia.” – Damian Green, Chair, Social Care Foundation and former Deputy Prime Minister

“This book very much echoes my own experience of journeying with a spouse with Alzheimer’s disease. Despite the excellent care given it was hard at times not to be included in the decisions made by the carers and doctors in what was best - in their eyes- for a loved one. The lessons and solutions suggested here will hopefully be taken on board by those who have the ability to make the system more personal to the loved one and family” – Dr Frances Massey, retired doctor and widow of dementia sufferer

“I’m looking forward to using the book to help my relatives. I’ll be purchasing a few copies to distribute.” – CEO of care home group

“Michael has a unique view of care. His tenacity in demanding the best care possible for his wife and his respect for the people caring for her makes his story compelling. I recommend this book to anyone interested in the art and experience of caring.” – Daniel Casson, Founder and MD of Casson Consulting

"Well worth a read... very interesting!" – Today Programme BBC Radio 4