The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay

Techniques and Strategies for Mind-Blowing Sex


About The Book

Renowned sexuality experts Jessica O’Reiley, PhD (Sex with Dr. Jess) and Marla Renee Stewart, MA (Sex Down South) want to help everyone have better, more fulfilling, and more meaningful sex!

Sex means different things to different people – it’s as varied as the different species on the planet. So, seduction and foreplay are not only about getting what you want, but about giving and receiving, teasing and pleasing for the best possible rewards, no matter how you define them. (And, yes, foreplay IS sex!)

The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay teaches readers how to tune into their own desires, become better communicators, and ultimately be more confident, passionate, and attentive lovers. Inspired by fantasies of seduction, Marla and Jess take you on a journey of sexual exploration and help you understand the many factors that add to or inhibit arousal and pleasure on psychological, sociological, and sexological levels. Readers gain a deeper understanding of their own sexual needs and the foundations for greater compatibility and connection. As you explore your own learning and seduction styles (and your lover’s), you’ll discover and experiment with new and exciting ways to stimulate arousal and deepen intimacy: verbal, emotional, and digital seduction, foreplay, eroticizing daily actions, games, fantasy play, mindfulness, and more. Packed with practical exercises, techniques, and creative ideas — especially for busy couples — this inclusive guide is a surefire way for folks of all genders to master the art of seduction.

You don’t have to be a rockstar in (or out of) the sack each time you have sex, but this book will help you approach your lovers with the confidence and comfort you deserve!  Whether you are adding to your repertoire for later or striving to please your current lover, you’ll discover thrilling new pathways to pleasure and intimacy.

About The Authors

Jessica O’Reilly, PhD is a Toronto-based sexologist, author, television personality, and award-winning speaker. When she isn’t helping thousands of people across the globe with her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after, she volunteers with students, teachers and social service organizations to empower young people to embrace healthy, happy relationships. You’ll find her advice weekly in the likes of Women’s Health, Men’s Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, Showtime and The Movie Network. Find her on social media @SexwithDrJess or at

Marla Renee Stewart, MA is a lecturer at Clayton State University and a co-founder of the Sex Down South Conference. She is a sexologist, a professional sex, intimacy, and relationship coach, and sexuality educator. She is also the creator of Velvet Lips, a sexuality education company that works to empower people of all ages to embrace, educate, and enjoy their sexuality. She has published academic articles, conducted workshops, been featured in many radio shows, TV shows, documentaries, books, magazines and has been invited to speak at universities around the world. You can find her on Twitter @1marlastewart or at

Product Details

  • Publisher: Cleis Press (April 14, 2020)
  • Length: 320 pages
  • ISBN13: 9781627782982