The Soulmate Strategy

My Imperfect Plan to Conquer Heartbreak and Find True Love

Published by She Writes Press
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About The Book

A soul-searching LGBTQ memoir about one woman’s attempt to plan her way to happily ever after—only to realize that healing, self-discovery, and love happen in their own time.

Days after Corey’s breakup, a photo of her ex wrapped in the arms of another woman goes viral on Facebook. Confronted with this gleeful boast about “happily ever after,” Corey, a forty-something lesbian, decides that she can’t live in a state of perpetual loneliness, plagued with the burden of her own failure in finding happiness and love.

Armed with her meticulously crafted checklist, Corey embarks on a mission to heal, move on, and find “the one.” But no matter how many items she checks off her list or how faithfully she follows the sage wisdom of psychics, her breakup coach, and the legendary rapper Eminem, her hope in finding her one true love begins to fade away—until she’s suddenly torn between two.

Now, with her heart unexpectedly on the line, Corey must find out what she really wants—and where her true happiness lies.

About The Author

Corey Seemiller is an award-winning professor of leadership and global generational expert. She has authored several books and articles and speaks at events around the world. Her work has been featured in major news publications and media outlets such as NPR, The New York TimesTime Magazine, and Newsweek, and her highly popular TED Talk has garnered hundreds of thousands of views. An accredited life coach with specialties in Law of Attraction and intuitive development, Corey also co-hosts the Rock That Relationship! podcast, discussing debacles and successes with breakups, healing processes, dating, and relationships. Corey resides in Tucson, Arizona, and is an avid hiker and outdoor enthusiast.

Product Details

  • Publisher: She Writes Press (February 10, 2026)
  • Length: 392 pages
  • ISBN13: 9798896360698

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Raves and Reviews

“. . . Seemiller delivers a compelling account of grief and growth, demonstrating that even the most painful endings can lead to profound self-discovery and, perhaps, a new kind of love. A frank and compelling memoir full of emotional wisdom.”—Kirkus Reviews

“Fiercely honest and at times hilarious. The only messy way I want to read about a healing journey.”—Gabrielle Stone, author of Eat, Pray, #FML

“Through humor, honesty, and hard-won wisdom, Corey Seemiller invites readers into her year-long journey from devastation to self-discovery, showing that healing isn’t about finding ‘the one,’ but about finding yourself again. This isn’t a fairy tale about love, it’s a real story about courage, clarity, and the messy, beautiful work of starting over. The Soulmate Strategy reminds us that every ending holds the possibility of an empowering new beginning.”—Sarah Prout, author of Dear Universe

“I love love love this book. It’s raw, hilarious, and so freaking relatable. If you’ve ever ugly-cried in your car or questioned your entire worth over a breakup, this will make you feel seen in the best way while providing the hope you need to make it through the day. The Soulmate Strategy is the book you can read instead of obsessively googling how to get over your ex.”—Dorothy AB Johnson, breakup coach and host of The How to Get Over Your Ex podcast

“In this real, raw, and laugh-out-loud honest memoir, Corey takes us along as she navigates heartbreak, the search for her soulmate, and her classically Virgo Soulmate Strategy. From psychic readings to speed dating, she tries it all, and with every awkward encounter, hopeful misstep, and hilarious experiment, we feel like we’re right there beside her—cringing, cheering, and laughing through it all. It’s messy, unpredictable, and completely relatable: a truly wild ride through love, life, and the sometimes outrageous quest for ‘the one.’”—Bethany Nicole, astrologer, author, and relationship expert

“The quest for love is universal, and readers of this book will find themselves enthralled with Corey’s journey while reflecting and maybe even healing their own. It is heartwarming, engaging, and an honest look at what it takes to move through heartache and be ready for your soulmate.”—Cassie Parks, money manifesting coach and cohost of the Manifest It Now podcast

“If you’ve done the therapy, read all the books, journaled your heart out, and still found yourself wondering, ‘Am I going to die alone?’—this one’s for you. In The Soulmate Strategy, you get insights to tools to build a healthy relationship that starts with you. It’s beautifully written and a must-read.”—Dagmar Kusiak, Founder of InsidesMatch and Relationship Coach

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