What is precious is never to forget
The delight of the blood drawn from ancient springs
Breaking through rocks in worlds before our earth;
Never to deny its pleasure in the simple morning light,
Nor its grave evening demand for love;
Never to allow gradually the traffic to smother
With noise and fog the flowering of the spirit.
-- Stephen Spender
You don't actually want to retire, do you?
Just giving up? Or planning to walk away and play with your own toys?
Is it that you're trying to get somewhere or trying to escape where you've been?
You don't actually want to retire, do you?
Listen to what happened to our grandfathers.
A Tale of Two Grandfathers
Our grandfathers were both accomplished and risk-loving entrepreneurs, one in Pennsylvania, the other in Washington, D.C.
Early last century, our Pennsylvania grandfather flew all around the North (occasionally the Great White North) selling saws. He sold his company, the modern-day DeWalt, to AMF in 1949. AMF eventually sold its DeWalt division to Black & Decker, where it remains a treasured brand. He retired at fifty-two. He loved investing and continued to do so successfully but never took another job in his life (he did treat the card game of bridge like a job, becoming a master before he died).
Our Washington, D.C., grandfather played football at Georgetown University, started his own insurance company after college, eventually bought a minority ownership in the Washington Senators baseball team (later the Minnesota Twins), and continued to go to the office every day until at the age of ninety, when his legs wouldn't take him anymore. He never intended to retire.
Did he need to go down to that office every day until the age of ninety? No.
He probably did need to, because he loved to. He was a pas-
sionate man with a true Irish temper, and wanting was needing for him.
Both of these men made great impressions on us. But one of them made his impression over the first six years of our lives: Our early-retired Pennsylvania grandfather died relatively young, at the age of seventy-two. We cherish memories of his rascal's grin and propensity for secretly slipping us gumdrops minutes before supper was served. Sad to say, though, that's where the recollections end; we see him from afar, ever with the eyes of little boys.
By contrast, our Washington, D.C., grandfather charmed, influenced, and occasionally scared the dickens out of us for the first thirty-five years of our lives, leaving indelible marks until his eventual death in 2001 at the age of ninety-eight. One of those indelible marks was his lifelong lesson -- born out of and borne out by his longevity -- to stay active and engaged in the deeds of this world.
He who did not retire, never thinking to do so, died at ninety-eight.
God bless them both.
What Are You Living For?
We're certainly not here to suggest one family's recent history proves that working long equals living long. Leaving the working world does not automatically reduce one's life expectancy! That said, we tell the story because we do believe you increase your chances for extended happiness with the approach you take to the future when you're fifty-six or sixty-six -- every bit as much as twenty-six or sixteen!
So we should reframe our thinking.
That's a necessity, given the regrettable but pervasive associations that the word "retirement" has in our society. Most people, of course, use it to refer to those days after the conclusion of formal full-time work: "Congratulations to Bob, who is retiring today following thirty-seven years of postal delivery" -- or "To Susan, who is retiring after two decades of leading this august organization."
Do we really want to say this? Because here's the way it comes out: "So long, Susan," we think -- bye-bye, Bob. "Retirement" carries heavy baggage, with its implications of departure and resignation. Standing there with a drink in your hand lifted for a retirement toast, it's hard not to think, "Their worthwhile days, their recorded life and times, are over." Do Susan and Bob want to be written off this way?
They probably don't think anything of it. Given the constant use of this word "retire" -- which we'll avoid using ourselves as much as possible in this book -- Bob and Susan are probably subconsciously falling into the same thinking, which is what happens when you're constantly exposed to a given word and its underlying concept without questioning its claims on you.
Listen, retirement is exactly what we should be trying to avoid in our lives, unless we're talking about the ultimate retirement. Up until that point, we should focus on the present and the future, asking what more we can learn, who else to help, how better to live day to day, all the questions that have always been asked and answered by human beings looking to improve their lots.
So let's please agree not to refer to any period of our lives as "retirement." We should almost always shoot for its exact opposite: engagement. Engagement will make you forget to ask yourself, "What are you retiring from?" Engagement asks the very much more relevant and interesting question: "What are you living for?"
This is a fine question for so many people to ask at (more) frequent intervals of their lives; your harried authors are again reminded of this even as we write and suggest it. The great thing about heading toward the second half of your life is that not only are you old enough to recognize the importance of asking "What am I living for?," but you're also young enough to fully exploit all of the opportunities wrapped up in the answers.
What are you living for?
If you've been traversing these past few decades asking yourself when you will retire, replace any fantasies of escape with something much better: the answers to that key question. Because another synonym for "retire" is "withdraw" -- which provides the perfect play on words when we recognize that withdrawal is exactly the condition so often faced by those who leave the working world only to discover that disengaging from its society can be a hollow experience.
For Further Thinking
Boxer George Foreman on why he came out of retirement:
Tom: After a ten-year retirement, you decided to fight again. You came back in 1987. Why did you come out of retirement?
George Foreman: For ten years I stood as an evangelist. I had this dynamic experience back in '77 after my last boxing match as "The George Foreman." I lost. I had a religious experience in the dressing room. I had a vision, and in a split second I was dead and alive again. On my hands and on my forehead, I started screaming because I saw blood. "Jesus Christ has come alive in me!" Of course, they rushed me to the emergency room. (Laughter.) But I will never forget that experience, to have a vision of death and life again. And I had a second chance to live. It changed me. For ten years I couldn't even shadowbox. But something happened. I got broke. I wish I had been a golfer, believe me. But because I was a boxer, that was my only profession, and I had to come back. Of course, the high point was to regain the title in 1994, [when I] defeated Michael Moore. It was unbelievable, because people tell you, look, you are a middle-aged man."
David: How old were you then, George?
Foreman: I was forty-five years old. The oldest man to ever become heavyweight champ of the world.
David: Have you ever thought about breaking that record?
Foreman: I do. I think about it all the time. I told my wife just the other day, "Look, David Toole was about to fight Lennox Lewis for the title. They couldn't agree on money." I said to my wife, "Look, I can pay David Toole that money he wants. If he is a number one contender, I can beat him. Then Lennox Lewis has got to fight me. I can be the heavyweight champion of the world." I went on for about two hours. After I finished, she said, "Shut up. Go lie down." (Laughter.) So when it gets to the point that you are more afraid of what your wife is going to do to you than Lennox Lewis and Mike Tyson, then it is time to leave it alone.
It's Okay to Aspire to Couchpotatodom, Too
Okay, we hope we've at least challenged your thinking about retirement, and whether it's even desirable. We intentionally take a radical view to make as strong a case as we can for not retiring, since most of the treatment this topic gets assumes that retirement is the Ultimate Goal of All Your Working Years. While our argument may not be a mainstream one, it is bolstered by some mainstream numbers. An AARP study reported in BusinessWeek (October 2002) reveals that 69 percent of workers forty-five and over say they plan to work "in some capacity" during their golden years, including 34 percent -- a full one out of three Americans -- who said they would work part-time entirely "for interest or enjoyment's sake" (italics ours).
We also hasten to add that some people truly wish to stop taking any salary of any kind and just rest, relax, relax some more, rest again, etc. Occasionally, when we're wearied by work, this sounds really good to us, too. We don't mean to suggest that dedicating one's latter days to relaxation for its own sake is bad or wrong. We do mean to challenge you to look deeper when we ask the questions "Why retire?" and "What are you living for?"
Financial Independence, Not Retirement
One simple and delightful term that we have had frequent occasion to use in past Motley Fool writings, both online and off-, is "financial independence." This is what so many of us are shooting for with our work and financial efforts. For those efforts, financial independence is a worthy end. Yet -- and here's the crux -- it is not just an end but also primarily a means.
Financial independence, wonderful achievement that it is, is most of all a means that enables you to live a life of opportunity and choice -- in a word, one of our very favorite words, FREEDOM. It is this freedom that we yearn most deeply for, for ourselves and our children. It isn't about being rich, and indeed there isn't any single amount that objectively makes Americans rich, or officially earns them financial independence. It's all relative. It's about being able to do what you want to in life, what would give you the most gratification and joy -- we all define these things differently -- untrammeled by worries or concerns over money. "Mere money," we should say.
To us, financial independence is a concept virtually synonymous with the American Dream. It's what America was designed to achieve for its citizens. No surprise that it continues to happen to more people here than in many other countries of this world combined.
Are you living the American Dream? Not yet? Well, if not, it's our aim to help get you there. If you're forty or over and find that you lack knowledge in one or more key areas of your finances, peruse again our table of contents and notice that each chapter has a relevant topic for anyone forty and over who'll most likely confront a decision about that. This book is for people who want to make better financial decisions.
Are you living your American Dream?
Our American Dream isn't retirement!
Nor should it be yours.
"Why retire?" we ask. We think it a perfect way for Fools to begin a book ostensibly about retirement. No, no...the American Dream is financial independence. Being free to live where you want, how you want, and do what you want. Let's work to make that happen.
• Prepare yourself to spend some time thinking through your future plans. It's not most people's favorite thing to do, but it's critical. Grab a notebook and dedicate it to your retirement planning. As you move through this book, you can jot down lists and thoughts and things to do.
• Now ask yourself if you really want to retire. Really, we mean it. Take a minute and think it through. If you do want to retire, ask yourself why. Next, think about what you're living for and what engages you on this earth. What communities, big and small, are you in? Write down your thoughts and answers to these questions.
• Make a list of people you admire who are in or near retirement -- those whose lifestyles and degree of contentment impress you. Then identify exactly what it is you admire. Is it how efficiently Thelma gardens? Is it how Fred manages to be involved in a dozen different hobbies? Is it how Louise has done so much good in her community and always has a smile? Is it how George Foreman loves life? Figure out how they do what they do. Have a short talk with these folks, if possible. See how they budget their time and what their priorities are. Then think about how you can be like them, and what steps you'll need to take. In many cases, with a little effort, you can become the kind of person you admire most. That's a great way to live the rest of your life.
Copyright © 2004 by The Motley Fool, Inc.
Everybody needs money! That's why they call it "money"!
-- David Mamet
It was the summer of 1994. The stock market was falling, talk of recession was in the air. The Internet was rising out of its niche into the mass market. And we decided to put everything professional on hold in order to transform our modest newsletter, "The Motley Fool" into a business. We had no anticipation of success. No plan to work together full time for the next ten years (had we known, things would be different). It was a sweltering summer in the nation's capital. We swept out the shed on the back of David's property, sat two computers side to side on rickety card tables, balanced Fool caps on our monitors, drank ginger ales, and set ourselves to the task of fielding financial questions online.
Should I buy stock in Intel?
What can I do to keep from getting rooked by a car dealer?
How can I teach my children about money?
What's the difference between fixed-rate and adjustable-rate mortgages?
Is my broker taking advantage of me?
What should I do if I have $9,000 of credit-card debt?
Is it a good idea to buy the annuity my advisor is selling?
Should I part with my shares of Xerox?
When is it best to take my Social Security distributions, at sixty-two or sixty-five?
The last decade has thrown a flood of financial inquiries our way. There were times when the flood was so ceaseless that our email boxes could've been declared Superfund sites. All the while our harmless little acorn venture, watered by your curiosity, was blossoming into an oak tree.
Two years later, we signed our first book deal with Simon & Schuster, the firm that's published our more than half-dozen books. Right about when the media started asking if the Brothers Fool could possibly be serious, we signed on to syndicate a column of financial education into the business sections of the nation's newspapers.
Public demand for education about finance was on the upswing.
And why not?
Seventy-five million baby boomers were heading into the second half of their lives.
We then cobbled together our profits and built our own studio at Fool Global Headquarters in Alexandria, Virginia, where each week we broadcast The Motley Fool radio show for NPR.
A study by market analyst Fallon Research concluded that one out of every four Internet users has visited The Motley Fool at Fool.com and that millions of people encounter The Fool each month.
Why the heck do you care about any of that?
Well, because you might be surprised to hear who it is we've been serving all these years.
Has it been college students or newcomers to the workforce -- anyone or anything approaching a potential date for thirty-six-year-old bachelor Tom Gardner? No. Even though we staunchly believe the best time to begin retirement planning is when you're twenty-one (it's a lifelong plan and pursuit), and even though we hope you'll share portions of this book with your kids, alas, our audience isn't markedly green. The occasional nineteen-year-old does come to one of our book signings, and we always draw everyone's attention to these forward-thinking young people and point out that by starting early, they -- in the words of the subtitle of our Motley Fool Investment Guide for Teens -- will likely obtain "more money than their parents ever dreamed of." But these devotees are few and far between.
So who are you all?
More than 80 percent of our audience is over the age of forty-five. Half men, half women. And only the smallest minority of you received a formal financial education. At book signings, conferences, and events, we've addressed primarily people like you, people treading either side of the half-century mark with questions about how to have enough cash to:
• Live a comfortable life
•; Provide fuel to worthy charities
• Pay for your kids to head off to summer camp (out-of-doors without PlayStation)
• Build your bridge to a second career
• Take care of your parents
• Bond with Jimmy Buffett in Margaritaville
In your hands, you hold the knowledge we've gained and shared with the many millions society has stuffed into a category called "baby boomers." Just about 25 percent of our nation's population fits into what sometimes seems an utterly useless classification: boomers. After all, you're everything under the sun. You're the most astonishing blend of diversity ever assembled in one place, under one flag. While you almost unanimously support individual, social, political, spiritual, and economic freedom, you share loads of distinguishing features.
So how do we speak to all of you individually at once?
Some of you are tall, some are reckless, some are poets, some own cats, some research individual stocks, some search the sky for meaning, some sleep late on Sundays, some prefer alternative healing, some love reading, some have recovered from cancer, some chew bubble gum, some run marathons, some find life absurd, and some would do anything imaginable not to read a book on financial planning for retirement.
But the great majority of you share one common trait.
We've said it once. We'll do so again.
What you know about money, you've learned yourself, often through trial and error. Damn that whole-life insurance package. And curse those penny stocks a broker sold you over the phone. But you've learned. All in all, you've done extraordinarily well. But do you have enough to ensure the freedom you'll covet from age sixty onward?
Our book's aim is to help you answer yes, but only if yes is the answer. For ten years now, we've worked with you boomers (we promise to avoid that trite word as much as possible) to draw up financial plans sturdy enough to transport dreams: a second home somewhere along the Pacific Ocean. Time to volunteer in the community. Sufficient health-care coverage. A chance to throw a little magic into the lives of grandchildren. A combination cruise-train-RV-jetpack-mountain-bike-airplane journey around the world. Enough dough to cover alimony payments and pay for your third husband's head of new hair.
The resources to turn a hobby into a small business.
The good life.
For Further Thinking
Whether building a financial plan or starting a business, you need to surround yourself with good people. Famous Wally Amos did just that:
David: How'd you start Famous Amos Cookies?
Wally Amos: In Hollywood, California, 1975. Opened the first store to ever sell chocolate chip cookies. It started with just an idea -- as everything starts, with just an idea -- and I got a group of friends together who supported it. Helen Reddy and Jeff Wall were initial investors. Marvin Gaye was one of the initial investors. I started with an investment of $25,000.
Tom: This was your Dream Team.
Amos: It was my Dream Team. No question about it. But you know what I discovered also is that they believed in me. They did not invest in an idea. I think people invest in other people, not in ideas.
Yes, the whole purpose of this book is to secure for you just that: the good life. Our book is laid out in four simply titled sections:
I. Get Ready
II. Having Enough
III. Having More Than Enough
IV. Having It All
This book is about gathering the resources to have it all. Veteran Fools know all this demands capital. But we aren't money-obsessed, and we don't wear blinders to the nonmonetary beauties of life. Having it all does not merely mean having a ton of cash. Not everyone has figured that out; a den of thieves in corporate America pilfered the system at the turn of this century for massive financial gain. They have enough. In a financial sense, they have more than enough; they're loaded. They'll ski the Matterhorn. Body-surf the Caribbean. Lie down in soft silk sheets. And rise to servants offering Egg Beaters, wheat toast, fresh strawberries, and a tall glass of freshly squeezed orange juice any day they darn well please.
But is that really having it all?
It may seem like it at times. On the surface, it is.
But what's always been missing in such people is any appreciation or understanding of the relative values of those things that can never be bought. Honor, self-respect, integrity, goodness -- things worth more than any silk sheet or served entrée. You don't need to settle for either financial security or a meaningful life. You should have both.
Every one of us, no matter where we are today -- in fact, no matter what we've done -- has a shot at claiming financial security and a soul. You may be forty-nine years old, with $14,000 in credit-card debt, an oversize mortgage, a stock portfolio that collapsed, a child in and out of reform school, and no job stability. Or you may be a retired telecom executive who skimmed $20 million out of your business before it went under. Yes, you, too, can have security and a soul. (Our first recommendation -- get down to the business of giving lots and lots away.)
Most of us are somewhere in between those extremes. The challenge is to continue or to get started in the right direction. For a Fool, life is always more about future direction than present location.
So what lies ahead for you in these pages?
A flurry of opportunity, an integration of philosophy, a chance to learn.
In "Having Enough," we'll help you organize your finances, save more cash, cover your health-insurance needs, build a suitable investment portfolio, and calculate what capital you'll need for the next few decades. In "Having More Than Enough," we'll unravel Social Security, paying for your children to attend college, caring for your parents, and strengthening your investment portfolio. In the final section, "Having It All," we'll provide detailed advice on how to squash people en route to becoming a powerhouse corporate executive, how to fraudulently design shell corporations, how to cajole auditors into crooked accounting, and how to siphon shareholder money into offshore accounts.
In truth, our final section will set you up to live a healthy, productive life -- one with hobbies, an adventure or two, and even a second or third career.
We admit that the decision to put a given chapter in a given section of a book is by no means clear-cut. Many might argue, for instance, that "What to Do with Your Parents" is a necessity, and therefore is about having enough, not having more than enough. In our experience, continuing and eventually ending (at death) your relationship with your parents -- done really right -- is something many people unfortunately can't optimize, due to other limitations or demands on their time, geography, or limited resources. That's why we think of it as having -- or, in this case, doing -- more than enough. As the philosopher says, "Your mileage may vary." Of course, we hope you'll read the whole book and, where necessary, cut us a little slack if our ideas of what is average and what is above average don't conform perfectly to your own notions. As we said above: This book truly is about helping you where you need to be helped, regardless of what level of affluence or freedom you enjoy or aspire to.
We believe that in our own ways, on our own terms, every single one of us can have it all from here, no matter how prolonged or brief our stay. Is it not so evident to you that some people gain vitality, wisdom, charm, financial freedom, patience, have better sex, take better care of themselves, and have increasingly more fun as they age? They're out there. They're planning, learning, seeking, growing.
You should be one of them.
If, by the close of this book, we've helped you identify your goals and assemble a realistic and cohesive financial and life plan, we've earned our bells.
Most of all, we want you to enjoy a good, page-turning read. The Motley Fool's aim is ever to educate, to amuse, and to enrich. None without the other two. Onward, then, for an adventure, a laugh, and learning.
Copyright © 2004 by The Motley Fool, Inc.
Building Wealth for a Better Life
The Motley Fool's Money After 40
Building Wealth for a Better Life
The Motley Fool's Money After 40 is for anyone who wants a stable future free from financial anxiety. You will learn how to fortify your portfolio to weather any economic climate and live the life you want regardless of the market's peaks and valleys.
Applying the principles of commonsense money management, David and Tom Gardner's goal is to help you determine what you will need and want when you retire and to guide you in creating realistic financial goals. From owning the right size home to affording sufficient health care coverage, from sending kids to college to taking that exotic vacation, The Motley Fool's Money After 40 explains how to:
Organize your finances to preserve the funds you already have
Master estate planning
Determine whether you can turn a hobby into a small business
Finance your children's education and care for aging parents
Live a healthy, productive life free from fiscal anxiety
Comprehensive and amusing, The Motley Fool's Money After 40 is a one-stop financial guidebook for gilding the golden years.
- Touchstone |
- 272 pages |
- ISBN 9780743284820 |
- February 2006